Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

You are greedy!

It’s actually that simple. You want it all, and you want it now. (Cue up Queen music.)

Life doesn’t work that way. Sorry.

Deciding to significantly change a bunch of your life habits because of what is essentially a random day on the calendar is a sure way to not get what you want.

Don’t get me wrong, I actually love New Years – it’s my favorite holiday.  I LOVE that so many people wake up with resolutions and a desire to change their lives. Many people view the proverbial turning over of the calendar as a fresh start. That is really inspiring to me. I’m eternally optimistic about people’s capacity to change – YOUR capacity to change – I’m just not sold on the idea of New Year’s Resolutions.  [Read more...]

What Can You Do In 8 Weeks?

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It is eight weeks until the end of the year. 62 days. 1,488 hours. 35,712 minutes.





What can you accomplish in those eight weeks?

  • In eight weeks, you can drop 15 pounds safely and healthily.
  • In eight weeks, you can write a bestselling novel (November is National Novel Writing Month, and I know several people putting pen to paper to write a 50,000 word novel this month). Actually, in eight weeks, you can write two!
  • In eight weeks, you can test your diet for allergies, identify them, and clean them up to eliminate chronic pain or sinus issues (if you want to know how, email me).
  • In eight weeks, you can become proficient in a new language.
  • In eight weeks, you can develop competency in a new activity — such as dance, martial arts, or swimming. Me? I’m excited about the new parkour gym that just opened on Leary Way between Fremont and Ballard.
  • In eight weeks, you can change jobs, or even careers.

The key to any of this is planning — which I know is something I talk about a lot. I’m a project manager by training, so I’m all about having a plan, a plan to make the plan, and a backup plan for the plan. But, without the plan, it’s hard.

You know that habits are hard to break. But, did you know that there is a physiologic reason WHY it’s hard? Your brain burns additional glucose any time it has to do anything out of the ordinary. Which is why “just sitting in training all day” can be absolutely exhausting. And why you are more likely to forget to stop for milk on the way home after a hard day at work. Your body is literally done.

Which is why the plan is so important. Rather than having to try to develop Plan B once you are already tired or cranky because your primary plan didn’t work out, you already KNOW what Plan B is, so you just have to execute it. No thinking required!

My eight weeks?

I’m in the final countdown for the Z-Health Master Trainer program, so I’m in an intensive study and practice mode. Not only will I need to be able to execute and teach the hundreds of Z-Health drills perfectly, I need to be able to explain basic physiology and Z-Health concepts in depth, and develop a comprehensive understanding of applied anatomy — bones, muscles, nerves, blood supply, and spinal segments. If that makes your heard hurt, you aren’t the only one.

If you are wondering, yes, I have a study plan. And, a backup plan. And, even a backup plan to the backup plan — really!

Tell me, what is your eight-week goal?

The Tortoise and the Hare

WriteOn! OnlineI’m in the home stretch of my 9-month Z-Health Master Trainer program – I have two months to really nail my gross anatomy and learn the teaching points for all of the drills, assessments, and concepts in R-Phase, I-Phase, S-Phase and T-Phase.

That is an awful lot of stuff, and the only way to make it happen is through careful planning. Which just so happens to be the topic of my monthly Jen’s Gem’s column: The 3 P’s.

How about you? What large project do you still have planned for 2009? It’s not too late!

Failing to Plan is Planning to Fail

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Fall arrived abruptly in the Pacific Northwest, and I know that my training routine has certainly taken a dramatic change in direction.

After lots of long hikes and evenings where it was too hot to cook, I suddenly find myself surprised by how early it’s dark, trying to restructure my training program, and looking up soup recipes!

How are you faring?

Honestly, I’m old enough and I’ve lived in Seattle long enough, that the change of seasons should no longer come as a surprise. But, it did — and it threw my entire game off. I failed to plan.

In an ideal world, we’d all sit down one day a week and schedule our meals and training programs, and life would go according to plan. But, since life is what happens WHILE we are busy making other plans, let me share a few tips I’ve learned over the years:

The beauty of the backup plan.

When it comes to training have a Plan B … and a Plan C.

The first backup plan is to plan for an alternate location/time — indoors if it’s raining outside, or something you can do on your own in case you get out of work too late to make spinning class.

The second is in case time gets compressed and you don’t have time for your full workout. It’s tough to beat a 4-minute Tabata workout, a few hundred kettlebell swings, or 10 minutes of jumprope in terms of pure work.

Options — it’s all about having options.

Night-before thinking.

After dinner or before bed, think about your next day. Do you know where your training fits in? Do you have your meals planned? Do you even have a slot for lunch? If the answer to any of those questions is no, take a few minutes and think it through.

Can you get up an extra 20 minutes early and do Tabata or jumprope? Leave work a bit early and hit the gym and be a half hour late to happy hour?

Can you stop by QFC and grab some lean protein, veggies, some cashews, and fruit from the deli and put together a healthy lunch? If you are running from meeting to meeting to meeting all day, be sure you have something healthy to grab in between so you aren’t grabbing a scone from Starbucks. (Did you know their fall favorite, the Pumpkin Scone, is 420 calories?)

Say it out loud.

This may sound crazy, but once you’ve made a plan, saying it out loud — even if no one hears you — means you are more likely to stick to it.

Say you have dinner out planned, and you know you should skip the bread basket. You know, and yet every time, you devour half of it before anyone else has even had a slice. Next time, as you are finishing getting ready, simply tell yourself (it HAS to be out loud) that you are going to leave the bread basket alone.

Whether it’s processed carbs, going to the gym after work, or not having that evening glass of wine as you sit down to watch Grey’s Anatomy, making the resolution out loud — even to an empty room — works.


Your turn. You tell me – what are your planning tricks?

Move It Monday – Planning

As the seasons change, do you need to change up your training routine to accommodate the shorter days and/or the colder weather?

Do you have a plan? If not, spend an hour this week and make one. By taking the time to plan and prep now, making the transition will be fun, easy, and something you look forward to, not dread.

Once you have completed your planning, do you have the tools you need to make that happen?

  • If you plan to take up a new activity, have you found the books, classes, or instructor to get you started?  (Seattle Resources)
  • If you are going to run outside in the dark and cold, do you have reflective gear and the warm clothes that you need?
  • If you ski or snowboard, take them in now for waxing and sharpening. Not only will you have faster turnaround and likely lower prices, but when the first snow hits, you’ll be the first on the slopes.

P.S. If you had been planning on taking up a new activity this summer and just never got around to it, this is a great time of year to shop for end-of-season closeouts so you are all set for next summer!

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